The Control Illusion

Have you thought to yourself, “If only I could control my speech, I would be able to speak fluently”? Maybe a well-meaning SLP told you to work hard to develop speech controls. Whether the idea came from you or was given to you, the idea that you can overcome stuttering by control is leading you to greater frustration and in some cases increased stuttered speech.

I know that I stand in disagreement with my colleagues who argue that stuttering happens because of lack of control. They say that head jerks, facial grimaces, repetitions and laryngeal blocks are signs of a lack of control, but this is an illusion. The fact is that speaking is an automatic system in the brain. Neurologist say this, psycholinguistic experts say this. The time has come for us to tell this to people who stutter.

“We do not let go of control; we let go of the belief that we have control. The rest is grace.” – David Richo

In Dynamic Stuttering Therapy, clients prove that giving up control results in fluent speech. Whenever they are speaking fluently with ease and comfort, they report that they hardly feel that they are doing something. They certainly are not thinking about how to talk. On the other hand, when they go with that urge to control how they are talking, they are once again struggling to speak.

Letting go of control is not easy, because our mind and ego want to control our environment and us. The mind fears results and wants to control what will happen. The idea of letting go of control is scary. In fact, it is so scary that the more we desire positive results, the more we tend to resist letting go. It is far easier to let go when we don’t care about the outcome. That is why it is easier for people who stutter to speak fluently when they are alone or speaking to animals or babies who do not judge them.

We cannot force ourselves to give up control, because that is also a form of control. However, we don’t have to force ourselves to give up control when we believe that control is unnecessary. We breath automatically because we know that’s how breathing works. We blink our eyes automatically, because we don’t think that it can be done any other way even though we could theoretically open and close our eyes on purpose. We also drive automatically and dance automatically (most of the time) because we know too much is required to carry out these activities by conscious thought. For 99% of the population speaking falls into the category of something we do without any thought or effort.

I know that giving up control over words and how to say them is not part of the psychological or belief system of people who stutter. However, it is possible to to change thoughts, beliefs and feelings. Giving up control is an essential part of the therapy process, because without giving up control, fluent speech will always be elusive.

Stuttering- More Than Feelings

Many people who stutter believe that they stutter because of their feelings about themselves and being too concerned with what other people think of them. It cannot be denied that people who stutter often stutter more when they are concerned over how they present themselves or how their speech sounds to others. However, it is important to differentiate between what causes stuttering and what increases stuttering. Making this difference is essential for understanding what stuttering is and for the self-esteem of many people who are sincerely trying to not let their stuttering affect their lives.

I want to make this point, because I have heard many people who stutter say that if they could make themselves care less about stuttering, they would not stutter. The fact that they are still stuttering seems to them to be a failure in their ability to cope emotionally. This is not the case. A person can be the most centered, emotionally intelligent and socially well-adjusted person and still stutter. This is true, because stuttering is a condition that involves so much more than the person’s feelings.

Today researchers are coming up with more and more evidence that the place where speech is created, the brain, is the source of stuttering. Recently new genetic research lead by Dennis Drayna at the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders (NIDCD), part of the National Institutes of Health, has shown that at least some people (thought to be 9% of the people who stutter) have a gene mutation, not found in fluent speakers. It turns out that these particular genes are responsible for the production of two enzymes necessary for a metabolic process required by all cells, but that especially affect a group of cells in the brain responsible for speech. Other researchers studying other families have also found indications of mutations in genes of those members of the family who stutter. The relationship of these genes to speaking is not yet clear. However, what we are seeing is that stuttering isn’t simply a question of how the person feels.

For those people who have tried to stop stuttering by changing only their attitude and feelings, it is important to know that stuttering is not only about what you feel inside. Advertising stuttering is good and helpful. Learning to be self-accepting of yourself whether or not you stutter is essential for your personal wellbeing. Being disappointment in yourself and thinking you have failed because you still stutter is self-defeating and misplaced.

Chasing Fluency

Desire of people who stutter: Becoming fluent

Reason for continuing to stutter: Trying to become fluent

So many people who stutter go to therapy to fulfill their desire to become a fluent speaker, only to be disappointed when it doesn’t happen. They try and they try, and the more they try, the more they become frustrated. The consequence is either giving up on their hope of ever speaking without stuttering or continuing to search in vain for the magic cure that will get rid of their stuttering.

I don’t believe there are any magic cures, but I do know that people who stutter can speak fluently. I also know that people who stutter will never speak with normal fluency by trying to speak fluently. As a matter of fact, trying to be fluent is very counterproductive, because it usually makes the person more aware of words (a good way to make stuttering happen), and putting in more effort to try to get them out (adding control to what must be an automatic process).

It’s hard for people who stutter to grasp that there is a way that they can create fluent speech without chasing after fluency. Perhaps that is why the hardest challenge of Dynamic Stuttering Therapy is to keep clients focused on the internal processes of creating speech when all the really want is the outcome-fluent speech. In Dynamic Stuttering Therapy, fluency is never the criteria of success. Nevertheless, when the person creates speech in the normal way, the effortless outcome is fluent speech.

As I write this, I am watching the Winter Olympics. I see sportsman after sportswoman focused on their process for their sport as they go for the gold. I think this is a good example of how to achieve success in therapy.

Desire of people who stutter: Becoming fluent

Reason speech is fluent: Focus is on the inner processes of creating speech

Fluency Without Speech Tools

As I have stated in previous posts, it seems very clear that people who stutter generate speech, at least some of the time, with too much control over language planning and motor programming. This is the problem; we need to consider the solution.

We know that the goal of modern stuttering therapy is usually to learn to use speech tools. People who stutter are guided to think about what they want to say and how to say it. They are asked to:

  • Change the rhythm of speech or speak slowly.
  • Reduce struggle behavior with pullouts and cancellations, preparatory sets.
  • Remember to stutter on purpose
  • Control how the mouth and breath forms various classes of speech sounds
  • Control breathing and pause after short phrases

Although these “tools” may reduce the strength or frequency of stuttering blocks, they are really asking the speaker to add more control over speech. People are meant to be produced speech automatically, but speech tools support controlled speech. It is no wonder, therefore, that the use of these tools causes frustration and takes away from the joy and freedom of speaking naturally. Speech tools also interfere with the natural quality of speech and make it harder to express mood and the speaker’s real personality through normal patterns of intonation.

People often give up on speech tools and resign themselves to believing that their only other option is to continue to stutter. As much as they want to find ways to be more fluent, they are locked into their belief that their only choice is speech tools or stuttering. They can’t accept what there is now another option that guides people who stutter to speak fluently by learning to give up control.

Dynamic Stuttering Therapy is what both clinicians and clients have hoped for. It shows people who stutter how to speak without effort, thought or control over words or speech muscles. The speech produced is natural and expresses the speaker’s feelings. People who stutter can learn to speak fluently without having to use speech tools.

For those who have hoped for something better than speech tools, Dynamic Stuttering Therapy is the answer.

There Is Hope For Overcoming Stuttering

I have recently heard people who stutter saying that they felt that a person who no longer stutters should not be a spokesperson for the stuttering community. They believe that if they speak without stuttering, the public gets the impression that everyone who stutters can speak fluently if they would only try, and people who stutter are given false hope that they can also speak fluently.

I was very bothered by this discussion because I believe these opinions reinforce the belief that people who stutter can at best learn to live with stuttering. It is my belief that the truth requires looking at stuttering from a different perspective. It was once true that we did not know exactly how to guide people who stutter develop the ability to speak naturally in all the different situations that they encounter in their lives. Therapy was a trial and error endeavor. Very often clients tried very hard to develop techniques and control their speech, but to no avail. On the other hand, there have always been people, who once stuttered, who no longer stutter. Since we didn’t know how that happened, it was chalked up to “good luck” or perhaps no longer chasing fluency god.

Times have changed. In my work with people who stutter I see on a regular basis that that there is a clear, explainable, and doable process that people who stutter can use that results in naturally fluent speech. It does not require chasing fluency, an activity that does usually result either in stuttering or effortful fluency. It does not require developing speech controls, the antithesis of automatic, normally produced speech. What it does involve is understanding how a person who stutters process speech and what changes need to be made to make speaking a much easier and dependable activity. I am fully part of the group who believes that there is no magic cure for stuttering. However, as a result of practical experience, I know that people of all ages and severities of stuttering are capable adopting and getting used to a process that results in comfortable easily produced fluent speech.

I believe that the stuttering community should welcome the input of people who have overcome stuttering. People who still stutter can learn from them that change is possible. For those who believe that it is not possible for people who stutter to develop a way of speaking fluently, it is time to gain a deeper understanding of stuttering. Instead of sticking to beliefs based on yesterday’s knowledge, they should listen carefully to the positive experiences of people who have overcome stuttering and to all the new research and clinical knowledge about stuttering. The time for negativity has past. The time for being open to a new perspective on stuttering has come.

Yet Another Therapy

We have had many clients who have tried various other therapy approaches before participating in Dynamic Stuttering Therapy. From what I have observed, these clients fall mainly into 3 categories:

1.      Those who had stuttering modification therapy, but were not convinced that this was all they could do to help themselves. They come to Dynamic Stuttering Therapy, because they have decided that, while accepting that they stutter and learning to stutter with a bit less struggle is beneficial, they have not been be able to improve the quality of their communication to the extent they desire. In their heart, they really do want to speak fluently.

2.     Those who were in fluency shaping programs and have tried to do what they had been taught, but became frustrated because it did not work for them. Due to the high hopes they had, they are often skeptical of yet another therapy and fear being disappointed by another unsuccessful therapy experience. Having been dedicated and serious clients, they may also be reluctant to give up the control techniques that they were taught even though they have really not produced the desired results. When these clients come to Dynamic Stuttering Therapy, they are amazed that the experience of speaking can be easier, more comfortable and, of course,  fluent.

3.    Those who did not like the therapy approach they had tried and, therefore, never made a habit of using additional speech or stuttering controls to speaking. When they come to Dynamic Stuttering Therapy, they are relieved that the therapy goals are so logical and uncomplicated. They are no longer reluctant to go along with the therapy process, because it makes sense and feels good.

Some of our clients did not let stuttering affect their lives even before beginning treatment. However, the majority of our clients come to therapy with years of negative experiences, thoughts and feelings related to stuttering. These clients work as much on cognitive processing as on neurological processing. Some of our clients need to make substantial cognitive changes in order to begin to enjoy speaking. My experience as a clinician has shown me the power of individuals to make changes. When the there is a direct relationship between change and desired results, the experience is rewarding.

Why DST Is So Effective

I am often asked to explain how Dynamic Stuttering Therapy differs from other therapies. The short answer is in almost every way. The more complete answer is that our focus is not on how to, or not to stutter. Dynamic Stuttering Therapy shows clients how to produce speech in the same way that normally fluent speakers produce speech. Naturally, if the process for producing speech is the same, the results are also the same – normally fluent speech. This is logical. People who stutter are capable of changing the way they process speech, so it is also possible. There is a clinically proven cause and effect between speech processing and fluency. That is why Dynamic Stuttering Therapy is the most effective approach for treating stuttering.

For some strange reason, until now people have thought of stuttering as if it were a condition that has little to do with the process of speaking. This is unlike almost any other speech condition in the field of Speech Therapy. If a person has poor vocal quality, the goal of therapy is to change the way the voice functions. If a child has language development problems, we search for the weakness in language processing and work to strengthen it, and so forth. However, with stuttering the goal is either on directly changing the speech itself or, alternatively, accepting that “once a stutterer, always a stutterer”.

There are therapies that do try to manipulate aspects of speaking, such as controlling the rhythm of speech, slowing it down, or controlling breathing. However, while in some cases these approaches might inadvertently cause the speaker to change the interactive neural process of producing speech, they do not actually deal directly with normal speech production. Dynamic Stuttering Therapy directly treats the neural network involved in creating speech.

The normal process for producing speech is essentially automatic. Controlling what you will say or how to say it is the antithesis of normal processing. We do not tell our clients to speak slowly, control their breathing, use gentle onsets or other techniques that require control. We guide them to give up control and show them how to speak automatically and without effort.

Dynamic Stuttering Therapy is an exciting experience, because people who stutter see that within themselves, they have the basic ability to produce speech normally. In some cases they even use this ability some of the time. However, because their focus is so much on the outcome, fluency/stuttering, they are not aware of the inner workings of speaking. Dynamic Stuttering Therapy is a process of self-discovery and change. There is no pressure on our clients to be fluent speakers. However, as they develop greater awareness of their way of producing speech their attitudes and behaviors gradually change. Speaking becomes effortless, comfortable and enjoyable.

Past Client 11 Years Later